“I was a single-married woman” – Ese Walter reflects on how she rushed into marriage after revealing her alleged affair with clergyman, Bidoun Fatoyinbo, and how the marriage packed up because she wasn’t ready
“I was a single-married woman” – Ese Walter reflects on how she rushed into marriage after revealing her alleged affair with clergyman, Bidoun Fatoyinbo, and how the marriage packed up because she wasn’t ready
Ese Walter, the young lady who in 2013 alleged that she had an affair with COZA pastor, Biodun Fatoyinbo, has recounted how she was made to feel that exposing the man of God was going to destroy her and how she ran into marriage thinking it will save her from the destruction mentioned to her.
The mum of three in a post shared on her Facebook wall this evening mentioned that many people including her mother were against her calling out the man of God. According to Ese, her mother called her a ”seductress’ who was out to bring the man of God down.
Ese said she remembers the shame, guilt, and uncertainty that covered her like a blanket when she came public with ehr alleged affair with the popular clergyman.
”What was I going to do with my destroyed life? Get married. Start a family and focus there.”
Ese then got married to media personality, Benny Ark, in 2014. She said marriage now became a problem as she couldn’t bring herself to integrate her husband into her family as she saw him as a stranger. She said she was a ”single-married woman.”. Sadly their marriage packed up in 2018.